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Our Impact...

Our Impact...

We are dedicated to making a profound difference in the lives of individuals facing mental health challenges. As we navigate the complex terrain of mental health, SOS Silence of Suicide stands as a beacon of hope, compassion, and understanding.

Since inception, we have remained steadfast in our commitment to breaking down the barriers surrounding mental health and striving to create a world where no one feels alone. Through a combination of advocacy, support, and education, we have embarked on a journey to transform lives and build a community that fosters healing, resilience, and empowerment.

This page serves as a testament to the tremendous impact our charity has made over the years. As we share stories of triumph, resilience, and recovery, we invite you to join us as we destigmatise mental health issues and nurture a society that values mental well-being just as much as physical health.

From testimonials of those we have assisted, to inspiring statistics that highlight our accomplishments, to impact surveys that monitor the impact that mental health has in our communities, we will share the changes we have initiated in countless lives. Our dedication to raising awareness, providing vital resources, and offering a supportive network is allowing us to make strides towards stopping the silence surrounding suicide, and starting meaningful conversations.

Thank you for being a part of our mission to stop the silence and start the conversation and create a world where mental health is prioritised, understood, and embraced with compassion.

From testimonials of those we have assisted, to inspiring statistics that highlight our accomplishments, to impact surveys that monitor the impact that mental health has in our communities, we will share the changes we have initiated in countless lives. Our dedication to raising awareness, providing vital resources, and offering a supportive network is allowing us to make strides towards stopping the silence surrounding suicide, and starting meaningful conversations.

Thank you for being a part of our mission to stop the silence and start the conversation and create a world where mental health is prioritised, understood, and embraced with compassion.

Feedback...

MR, Ex voluntary worker

“Your email filled me with so much happiness and some tears to go with it. Thank you for always being so lovely and believing In me, everyone needs someone like you in their life.

I feel like you gave me an opportunity that really helped me get where I am today and build my interpersonal skills and confidence and for that I will forever be grateful. Its lovely to stay in touch with you.

Thank you for all your lovely words, they really do mean so so much.

I will forever remain grateful and happy to of met someone like you, you should feel really proud of yourself for the charity but ultimately being someone so compassionate and friendly.

I really hope one day when I am a lot less busy, I can come back and help.

Thank you again for being you, and believing in me. You are one of a kind.”


One of our regular callers

“Hi hope you and Michael  are well. I hope you don’t mind me messaging you. I just really wanted to say thank you so much to you and your voluntary workers.  You are all amazing. **** is a diamond  and a life saver, she is one in a million.  Everyone has helped me so much. I am very grateful and lucky. Thank you for never turning your back on me any of you”


Next Plc – One of our corporate partners & sponsors

“As Group Health, Safety and Wellbeing Manager at Next I have had the privalage to work closely with Yvette and Michael at SOS Silence of Suicide over the last 2 years.  We have hosted a number of SOS events in our offices and warehouses where they have provided critical support and guidance to those considering or touched by the effects of suicide.  Some of those involved have gone on to voluntary worker as Mental Health first Aiders in the workplace. ”

 


The British Dental Association’s

The British Dental Association’s Branch President in Northern Ireland, Martin Curran, recently hosted an evening seminar on stress and suicide in Belfast along with Michael Mansfield QC and Yvette Greenway, co-founders and trustees of the charity SOS Silence of Suicide.

Interacting with patients in the surgery as well as colleagues in dentistry can help both sides in identifying mental well-being issues, Yvette said.
The important thing is to talk about it.

“It can be like lighting a touch paper. It may create a two-way exchange that is beneficial to both sides. Once people realise they can speak freely, without being judged, open and honest discourse follows easily. Some people just want to listen, others simply wish to be heard,” she said.

“We need to be looking after our colleagues. Suicide is the ultimate in terms of stress. It can build until they just can’t see a way out” 

Martin Curran, BDA Northern Ireland 

Yvette explained that SOS started as a support group, travelling all over the country and inviting people with an interest or who had been affected by the issue to come along and share their thoughts, feelings and experiences. As well as dentists, the charity has held sessions with lawyers and in schools and prisons.

SOS is the only charity she is aware of that brings together anyone affected by this issue, including those bereaved by suicide or contemplating it and individuals who have attempted to take their own lives.

“Being a dentist can actually be quite a solitary job, with patients coming through every few minutes. It can feel quite isolating” 

 


One of our current voluntary workers:

I have been volunteering on the phone lines for S.O.S Silence of suicide for coming up to a year. This is something that I consider to be an honour and a privilege.
Our callers are often overwhelmed, distressed, lonely and in desperate need of someone to hold them in that space. To be with them and try to give them hope when they feel that all is lost.
I find it incredibly humbling the strength of human character that I witness from this position and I fundamentally believe that all suicide is preventable.

This is where the wonderful team at S.O.S Silence of Suicide come in. The voluntary workers work relentlessly to support those in need.
With the help of my colleagues in my day job (GXO logistics & Supply chain), we have just raised £2500 for SOS as this charity really is close to my heart.
I know those funds are very gratefully received and I will get to see first hand the good that this amount will do.
Thank you Michael and Yvette for the opportunity to help our callers. It really does mean the world to me. It has helped me to be the best version of myself, take stock then things seem bad offering perspective that they is always someone suffering far worse than you.
Thank you for all your hard work, it does not go unnoticed.

 


LINKLATERS

Statement from Nick Syson, Health & Wellbeing Champion and Partner within the Banking Practice, Linklaters LLP London

“As part of our Health & Wellbeing programme’s focus on Mental Health we hosted a ‘Silence Of Suicide’ session.

This was the first time the firm addressed this topic, and the large turnout on the day proved how important it is to talk about and openly recognise suicide.

During the seminar Michael shared the tragic story of his daughter’s suicide and both him and Yvette spoke about SOS’s aim to address the ‘elephant in the room’, raising awareness and encouraging conversations about suicide.

As one attendee said: ‘It was an open forum with frank discussion.’

Michael and Yvette were described as ‘open and relatable’ and the audience appreciated that their candour in ‘talking about an issue that we all face and should discuss.’

The ‘Silence Of Suicide’ film which accompanied the session was described as very poignant and it was received in a spirit of empathy, kindness and interest.

We as a firm believe that we benefited immeasurably from the Silence of Suicide session.

It has encouraged us to break down barriers and start the conversation on a topic that needs more talking about”

 


Michael and Yvette on the back of their meeting with Theresa May, attended No 10 Downing Street to meet with the Deputy Head of Policy where we discussed many aspects surrounding mental health and wellbeing and in particular the need for preventative measures in relation to suicide, alongside the role employers and educational establishments could play to encourage positive mental wellbeing within their respective arenas, and how they may best manage critical situations vulnerable individuals may encounter.

Again, the uniqueness of the SOS model was discussed – the simple, yet highly effective platform we provide nationally for people to unburden themselves and to network with others in the same/similar situation cannot be under-estimated and the DHP agreed with us that face to face communication clearly had benefits.  Much of what Michael and I discussed was directly related to what YOU, the supporters of SOS tell us – what you discuss at the meetings, the changes you feel need to happen, the failures and non-delivery of services to those who need them – all this has been discussed, so thank you , every one of you, for your feedback.

Our input yesterday will be used to feed into the Government’s suicide prevention policy and there are more discussions to be had with DHP.

 


Thanks to Met Police displaying our posters in some custody suites, we’re now able to reach even more people to support their emotional health at a time that can be emotionally challenging for many people and their friends and families


From one of our crisis line callers (October 22)

“Hi I call this service in and off over the last year or so and I would really like to thank everyone for how kind and understanding you are
This service has helped keep me out of hospital and have prove so valuable to me The main reason for this is how empathetic and help me when I feel confused and redirect meThank you so much
I would love to be able to help in some way one day”


From one of our crisis line callers

A beautiful poem sent to the voluntary workers and team at SOS by one of our callers we have been given permission to share with you anonymously.  Thank you to our amazing voluntary workers for making our callers feel as precious and valuable as they do.

The Silence Of Suicide,Is where the dark thoughts reside,Can’t open up and say,That we need life to go away.You don’t need to save our souls,Or help us focus on life’s goals,You help make today feel okay,So tomorrow we can stay.Help us through the unbearable pain,Treat us with dignity, not shame,You’re a soft place to fall,When we have really given it our all.You remind us that hope is there,If only just because you care,When we really have nothing to give,You remind us it’s possible to continue to live.I can’t tell you how many times,You have stopped me crossing the line,The line between life and death,The line that is my last breath.Gentle encouragement that doesn’t overwhelm,A reminder not to let fear take the helm,I wipe the tears in my eyes,Sure I will see tomorrow’s sunrise.